It is true that we all do this: Once we hit a rough patch in our lives, we question why we are in the situation; we question every movement we made and begin to blame ourselves and the people around us. Successful people do not at any time no matter their trials and tribulations cast the blame of their circumstances onto another.
There’s a saying which is ‘Look after yourself before you look after others’. At first glance you would think it’s quite a selfish quote but when you read it again, it will make sense. Looking after others will require a lot from you and if you aren’t well yourself, it could end in disaster.
In order to give the best of yourself to others, you need to at first take the time to understand your own needs and establish what needs to happen in for you to remain in a state of equilibrium.
The life that we are living is not just there to just exist, to work, pay bills and then to die. All of us; not only the rich and privileged; all of us have a right to live our best life. We are born to great moments and have experiences filled with constant ups and downs and an abundance of emotions. We all are writing our own book and it may seem difficult from time to time; particularly when it is evident that we are all not given the same mark to begin with.